Birthday is an event.Whether we want it to be happy,unforgettable or remarkable will depend on us.
Most of the time, we just crossed our finger that our friends,family or loved ones will plan and suprise us with some extraordinary treats.Sometimes they do,sometimes they dont,rite?
Why not be proactive and plan for it? It could be a gift you;ve always wanted,a restaurant you’ve always want to visit.It could be a new experience that will enrich your life.It could be a walk down memory lane experience that will warm your heart.
I am not asking you to do it alone or demand that your friends and loved one to do it for you. If there is really a lot of things you want to do or experience for the special occasion, you can map out which one you want to do it alone and which one you want to do it with others.
Once you have got that in mind,you can choose who do you want to spend your birthday with. Is it a party or a sit down dinner?
Some of you of course would prefer that others plan it for you,but trust me,if you give that extra thought to your birthday experience,it will be unforgettable!
Oh yes,dont kill the creativity by being receptive to something spontaneous or unexpected too!
For me,the last 2 years of my birthday has been unforgettable,simply because i’ve put in a little effort to decide of the kind of experience that I wanted. My preference is to have some new experience that will last for long time if not lifetime!
Give it a try and see how your next birthday turns out 
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